James Ridings
John Hegberg,
This is to share with you my plans. I am a 69 year old crotchety old fart. Living solo here in Southaven, MS, I have no motivation to plan for any social activities to occur at my passing.
However, I do plan to be more than a fart in the wind. Here in Mississippi, and I suspect in other states, there is a continual need for Medical Professionals. In the University of Mississippi's Medical School there is a program which allows individuals to donate their remains for no remuneration, to be used as tools for pre-Med students. Each student will need a cadaver, like the days back in Hi-School and College where the class bought the pickled frogs and other small animals for the “research” work learning the cutting and slide preparation for Zoology.
This “gift” to the State cost me and the family nothing. The Med School will, at my discretion return any unused remains after 1 year, to the family. My will... states that there is to be no return and the University of Mississippi's Med School cremates the residual remains at that time.
That being said, I have made plans to stay around the northern confines of Mississippi. I have a card with my driver's license which declares to whoever finds my body to contact the school which will collect the remains and put me into the system. Mississippi will not go out of state to collect the cadaver.
I tell you this now because:
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I do not intend a great funeral to take place with my daughters and ex... When I am gone my remains are just a collection of molecules. There is no reason for any stones in a graveyard or anything else.
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This saves my children and ex. $7-8,000 in funeral expenses which will not need to be spent to fulfill --- tradition. They can have any Memorial Service they desire at what ever cost the Church might charge, if any cost at all.
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If they want a memorial, I have told them to plant a tree or clump of trees of their choice and enjoy the beauty of God's creation. I am with Him enjoying His beauty!
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Others in similar situations in our class might find it interesting to be able to plan a gift to their piers and descendants in their passage as I have.
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I do not know how to publish this to the class. If you feel it provides enough of a seed of a future vision to reach out to your and my piers, to bless others, maybe you can share it with the class.
Respectfully,
James Carey Ridings
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